The above is a wonderful resource that I was able to find from another reader here. It allows you to search for help in your own state. I hope this can become a great resource and have posted it under links too.
The main site at http://womenslaw.org/ shows you how to get a restraining order, get custody of your children to filing court documents. It is womenslaw.org, they have created an amazing resource for you. It is a place to start.
Love & Peace,