The most thankful time of the year. For me, many holiday’s were spent alone, I had dreaded Thanksgiving most years, it was just my son and I, we could see some friends but no family lived near us, it just felt sad and lonely. It was the time of the year that my life fell apart, the trigger of fall just brought me down.
Now, I am so grateful for this time of year, I have the life I had always longed for, I live near my family, I have the love of my life in a man, my son is happy and secure for the first time in his life, I have a beautiful little girl brought to me by this man, she has become mine, I have a 2 year old grandson and a wonderful daughter in law.
I have a job I love, a roof over my head, food in the cabinets, a man that loves to cook for me, my health is good. I have created a community of women that are open and share, letting me know the work I do is appreciated and much needed.
Most of all what I am thankful for is that it never crosses my mind, am I safe today. It is something I am now secure in, i don’t live in daily fear of being harmed. The little things are normally big.
I want you to feel safe this year too. You can change your life in a second, by making a decision or changing the way you look at things. If you are out of the abuse and feeling sad, focus on what you have now, your freedom.
Focus on what you what life to be from this point on. Find a list of things to be grateful for this holiday. Share what you are most grateful for this year, it helps others to be more appreciative of what they have.
Love & Peace this Holiday Season,